New Year’s message; resolution revolution

“ Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans “ John Lennon. New Years is always the time when we focus on our lives. We look back at the past year’s events, and also look forward to our future. Many of us make resolutions and many break them. We hyper analyze our successes, failures, what’s still missing from our lives, and lament the things that have passed. Some of us will be thoroughly happy with ourselves having attained all goals and then the rest of us will realize we still have a ways to go. I have had to pick myself up and reinvent myself three times ( big reinvents) and I have failed many more times than I have succeeded. I have made some big mistakes and some big misses and I have had some surprises and successes as well. My advice for this new year? This is your journey and there’s no wrong or right, nor would you trade your life for someone else’s .. There is No One .. no matter how privileged or rich, beautiful or famous that doesn’t have hard times or mistakes or misfortune… your time for your best self will come when it’s supposed to, not a minute earlier or later.. so sit back and enjoy the ride.. make each minute count and live a life of excellence and indulgence… try and look for opportunities that fulfill you and make you happy. We are on this earth for a finite time and we do not really know when that time is up. We are better off making mistakes than regretting not acting at all. Challenge yourself, be brave, take chances, leap wheneve able, help and serve others whenever possible and connect to the world and universe at large .. life is both light and dark, Ying and Yang… that’s just the way it goes .. there will be hard times, good times and everything else in between, be beautiful inside and roll with the rest, that’s all you can do .. everything will work out in the end. “ Everything is ok in the end, if it’s not OK, it’s not the End”~ John Lennon